Mostly people loose their heart in difficult moments of life.They try to run from the situation or condition they don't like.It is for those people I have some advice.Just read this story starting from the next paragraph, about A boy. You will learn something very amazing which can completely change your attitude towards life or sad moments of life.The story itself gives an advice and no need of my advice than.
Once there was this man, whose vehicle was stuck in a traffic snarl.As others put on grumpy faces,he seemed to enjoy it all,at least outwardly.When asked to explain his unusual behaviour,he said,"I have no power to change the situation I am in.At the same time,no one else can dictate how I should react in any situation.My attitude is my own.I have decided to be happy even in this mess and that's it.A situation cannot make me morose.It is I and only I who can."
The choice is ours,to curse circumstances or adapt to them in the best possible way.The fact is,whoever is outwardly happy has to be inwardly happy too:"We do not laugh because we are happy;we are happy because we laugh."
This world is a big stage and we all are actors in the drama that unfolds everyday,scripted by an unseen force.All of us are playing a character.The finesse with which we perform our role determines the course of our lives.
So dont take yourself too seriously. Seize every chance to be light-hearted.Do not run after attainment at the cost of enjoyment.That isn't life.In our zeal to chase success,we miss out on the essence of living.Life seems to be giving us a miss as we get too involved with working out our plans.Be yourself and things will work themselves out for you.Success comes often to those who are too happily busy to go chasing after it.Do balance your time between business and pleasure,home and office,work and family.Do not ignore your personal obligations.If you cannot spare time for yourself and your family,you lack time management.Nobody in this world gets a minute more than you do,so you can't complain.So if you run short of time you need to sit back and think.Learn to manage time,with expert advice if needed.
People from all over the world, irrespective of caste,creed or religion, are in dilemma what the purpose of life really is. Some think that it is the accumulation of money or power. Others seem to believe that they exist for no reason at all. Or they say that if life does have a purpose, they don't really want to know about it because it would just get in the way of their "good time." There are also people who believe that the only purpose of life is to eat well,sleep well and enjoy every moment of life.According to me just enjoying life is not the only thing to achieve in Life.The main goal of Life is to perform the duties of life in such a manner so as to get peace and joy inside.Once you are happy and peaceful,this will automatically spread happiness all around you.So again I would like to say that the true purpose of life is to develop your mind and become a happy adult. Life's "purpose" then is for all of us to grow and move forward in positive directions. Spiritual growth is absolutely necessary for us to become successful, happy beings.
Chinese are very sincere towards their duties of life.So nearly 80 percent of the Chinese people are happy with life.The survey shows more than half of the total residents in China feel their life peace and satisfactory, which has become the mainstream of people's feeling towards life, and the percentage has increased by 6 percent from that in 2003. However, the percentage of people who felt bored and worried or suffered from anxiety and high nerve was also on the rise slightly. But the percentage of those who stuck to the altitude of nonchalance or neutrality has dropped a little bit.So perform your duties of life very well to be happy like Chinese.
