Frequently asked questions on Love

Question: When you have a boyfreind and he is always busy,no time for you what should you do? Please advice.

Answer: Its better you also start taking interest in his work. You might have noticed that when he is concentrating on his work he speaks to everyone whoever is involved in the work along with him. When he is busy in his work that means he has keen interest in his work and darely love his work. There are some kind of people who like to work more than to enjoy life because when you give full attention to your work it gives you peace inside. Such people dont like falling in sex and other enjoyments because all external body comforts gives you temporary pleasure and cannot give peace and joy which comes from soul and which is pure love.

I think your boy friend is sincere and doing a great job. If you want to come closer to him learn everything of what he is doing and start helping him in his work. This way he will have to take interest in you as you will be working with him.

Question: Can you make someone to be in love with you using text message?

Answer: Its for sure you cannot force someone to love you in anyway. If you write good text message it may be that you can impress him by your way of writing but cannot make him love you. Love comes in life in a natural way and you cannot make love. If your opposite partner is impressed by your text messages it doesnt mean that he loves you. You also put good impression on your teacher when you do well in exams but that doesnt mean your teacher is going to marry you. Definately the teacher loves you but that is a different kind of love which is like a love of mother for a child. So do not try to impress someone to get his love. Pray to God to meet you with your real love partner. That day you will feel you are in true love.

Question: What is first love and when will it come to my life?

Answer: First love is the love at first sight. Means some day you will see a boy or girl for the first time in life and your heart will start beating. Some voice will come from inside that you know that boy or girl from previous lives though you have seen him/her for the first time in this life. You will feel that both of you are one. If you are a boy and When you will look at her, she would just bow her head and smile. Why this smile when you never met each other before and never talked with each other before? This is the first love .It happens like this in first love. When you just look at her it gives joy and happiness inside. Your heart will say just to stare at her/him. There will be no feeling of sexual intercourse in first love. If you have that kind of feeling than its not true love but its a Sexual love .

There is no age boundation for such love and it can come to your life any time. It may come even in older age. Usually it comes in the age between 18 to 30 years which is its best time when you are young and matured.

Question: I like a girl but don't know how to talk to her?

I really think this one girl is cute but I dont know how to talk to her. I just dont know what kind of things to talk about when I'm near her. I'm really not good at talking to girls that i think are cute. Can someone give me some topics and methods about how to talk to girls.

Answer1: You can try to make her laugh, just don't use corny pick up lines. If this is a girl at school, try to observe her and figure out things she likes. Don't stalk her, but see what kind of bands she might advertise on her clothes, or what pictures are in her locker, or on her folders, things like that. It is hard to try to plan exactly what to say to a person. Start small. Don't try to make a conversation right away. Just drop a couple lines (not pick up lines though) that will make her smile.

Answer2: Just say hey and let her do the talking. Listen to what she says and just respond naturally and go with the flow. Keep it light-hearted and funny and you'll be ok.

Answer3: Well, you good think of common grounds, like if you go to the same school or somthing you could talk about a test, or you could tell her you like her hair or somthing to get the conversation started.

Answer4: It seems you are in true love with her. A true love always happens between 2 opposite partners. A true love cannot be one sided. Means if you are in true love with her then its for sure she also darely loves you .So whatever way you start conversation with her it will not mind her and she would still be happy to talk to you. If you are still not sure if you are in true love please read Love story .Once you understand what true love is you can even purpose her and she is never going to refuse your love. Get to know her.Ask her about what she likes to do, about her family and friends. then slide in little cute comments. find out things you both like, that way, it's easier to talk to her. become her friend first. i know that's really important to me.

Question: Explain to me how a woman can dress like she wants it and then be offended when guys try to nail her? I mean, if a guy dresses up in pink pants and wears flowered shirts, you assume he's a little light in the loafers...if you wear floppy shoes and a red nose, people assume you're a clown! What gives???

Answer1:Well no matter how a woman dresses she expects respect. I know, i know, she dresses like she wants it, but she doesnt want a jerk. On the same point, you're trying to nail her, she dont want you to persue her for that. I mean it is ok that she is sexy and you can think that but she dont want you to come after her just to nail her. She wants you to be interested in her and all of her. But ofcourse she want you to think she is sexy. The dressing like she want it is just a way to get you interested and looking her way.

Answer2: You can't advertise sex and then switch to something else. A guy doesn't go into a "Dunkin' Donuts" looking for a "Big Mac", ya know? He's looking for a sweet fluffy bun with a hole in the middle...like what was advertised."

Answer3:Making assumptions about people you know nothing about is one of the dumbest things a person can do.

Answer4: Ahh the million dollar question of a womans mind.....Well, half are only pretending to be offended. They want you to think they have some morals...The others are just clueless and really dont realise how trashy they look.

Question: How do you let friend know you love him without telling him upfront?

Answer: This is an interesting question. But answer is very simple. If your love is a true then you both can understand each other from heart. First you need to understand how close you are with each other. Do not tell him directly that you love him. Just spend time with him for at least 1 month. Try and find out if both of you are coming closer to each other. If he has love for you, he will certainly like to meet you again and again. Try to understand his feelings for you first. Once you realize that he is also interested in you, you can tell him you are in love with him.

Question: What to do when you have......?

Well a friend of mine just told me tht she had mono and she found out about it by going to the ER because she got so dehydrated. well the doctor that she cant kiss for 6 months because it is still contagious in the salivia for up to 6 months and she is like i cnt live without kissing my bf and im like if want him to come down with mono you go ahead and kiss him but all she has been giving him is pecks so she like i hope he cnt get mono this way so i was wondering how can she kiss and not give her bf mono will a peck give him mono? please help because she loves him and cant go with out his kisses as she puts it well if you can please help me here.

Answer: I got mono from letting some chick use my chapstick, might as well tell her bf to catch it. It just makes you feel depressed for awhile and lays dormant in your body, but you don't pass it on after awhile. It's not that bad, alot of people have/had mono.

Question: Why do men eye up other women in front of their girlfriends???

Answer1: What "mem" want?, A common question from a lot of my lady friends. Well.. Let start from here..Men are seeking women who are feminine gentle and kind because deep down the qualities that make a woman a great mother are an attraction in themselves. I am not suggesting that the man himself needs mothering, though some do, it is more the point that men seek the attributes in women that point to someone who would make a great mother to future offspring.

Men want women with a great sense of humor. Women often come across as uptight or too bothered by too many small details. You will sometimes hear mention of a girl who is 'one of the boys'. What this means is that she is able to fit in with their humor and is sociable and fun to be with. Such women are extremely attractive to many men. Men want to have a good time and relax when not working and so their ideal partners are women who are able to do the same.

Answer2: Its human nature and its not only true for guys. If you were in a car and you saw a ferrari pass by would you see it or not!? well.. i am not saying that other women are ferraris but hey what the heck! Atleast we are not staring at other guys .. if that happens that should worry you more!

Answer3: because there girls have expired and want to look at something fresh

Answer4 : For the same reason that we eye up men, dogs, furniture, home electronics and train wrecks in front of our girlfriends. Each of those things holds some visual interest that attracts our attention. We look, we pass by, and we forget, prefering to focus our real attention on the things (and people) that truly matter to us. Why do you ask?

Question: How To Find True Love As Girls Always Cheat?

I have many friends and many are girls. Among them I used to love one but when I purposed her she told that we are just friends. After 2 days she went away to America. Now I dont believe in girls. How to find true girl friend who loves me seriously.

Answer1: True love happens automatically. You were not in true love with that girl. May be you need some sex with her. If your love is a true love, it will never be one sided. So wait for right time till you are in true love with someone. Make yourself look smart and get some good qualities in you to impress girls.

Answer2: Hi, You cannot put all girls down just because this girl could not bond with you and marry you. She just wanted to be friends and there is nothing wrong with this. You have to conciser her feeling not only your. If you want to get marry just wait and the right girl will come along sooner or later just wait.